Mother and Daughter BFF Rules

My mother died when I was Thirteen so I never had the chance to know my mother better.
Growing up without a Mother is like growing up on your own, even if I had my grandma back then
still I felt alone and have no idea what life is about, what things should I know and learn but all of
this longing doesn't stop me from being who I am now and since I myself have my own daughter
now I decided to make a list of things to guide us in raising our own and have a wonderful mother
and daughter relationship along the way.

here they are...

Trust

When She said “Don’t Tell Anyone” then don’t.

Nung  bata ako I told my mom something and asked her not to tell anyone, but then when my dad came

home that night I caught her telling my dad everything I said, I felt so bad that time natakot din akong mag

trust ulit, feeling ko she betrayed me kaya from that day on hindi na ako masyado ng sasabi sa kanya ng

kung ano ano, hindi rin ako close sa nanay ko I grew up a Daddy’s girl and when I was growing up my

nanay passed away naman so while growing up as a teenager it was only my dad and myself  I trusted.

Respect

Respect is not just about “Po” and “Opo”, “Amen”, “Thank you”, those were just words of respect that can

easily taught to kids.

Respect is more of giving each other the chance to do what they want without telling them to

Respect is more of giving each other moral

Encouragement

Encourage your child to do what makes them happy but don’t forget to remind them to be cautious.

I personally grew up with low self esteem, hindi maganda ang skin, hindi healthy, hindi matalino and most of

all walang talent sa kahit anong skills. As I grew up and discover how to do things on my own that’s when

the time I started to gain a little confidence. Super hirap yung feeling na you want to do something pero

people around you would say “hindi ka pwede nyan or hindi ka bagay dyan” kaya promise ko sa sarili ko na

pag nag karoon ako ng anak pagiging supportive mom ang peg ko.  Sabi nga nila if you want to raise a

champion you have to encourage them to be one.  Pero aminin natin mga mothers hindi lang support ang

binibigay natin sa kanila but all the best we could kaya minsan nag kakaroon tayo ng tinatawag na

“spoiled”but who cares as long as wala tayong ginagawang masama sa iba and wala tayong na aapakan na

tao, a mother will always be a mother no matter what.

Laugh together

Laughing together and making joke at each other can make the bonding stronger.

I know someone who can text her daughters na parang tropa lang, they can also talk about anything and

sometimes they make fun of each other. 

Sabi nga nila laughter is the best medicine, laughter can also ease the pain away and make any bad hardtimes

easy.

Be true to each other

Being true to your daughter means being true to yourself, no matter  how painful it is telling the truth can set

you free. 

Ang Ina ang ating unang guro, and Ina ang ating unang kritiko at ang Ina ang ating unang tagahanga.

 Kaya mga mothers habang bata pa lang sila let's practice telling the truth na para pag laki yun na ang naka

sanayan nila....

Always Have Time

Always have time to listen
Always have time to share what ever idea you have
Always have a time to play
Always be a FRIEND not just a Mom

Be an Explorer

Explore things together and never be afraid to try things together

Enrichment

Enrich your child's skills, talent and whatever makes them the best they could be



Being a mother is not an easy job people may judge us, our kids may not appreciate us but no matter what
the world see us being a MOTHER is something that no man can take from US.

Mum,

You may be treated like the maid,
you may be treated like the gardner,
you may be treated like the daycare,
you may be treated like the chauffer,
you may be treated like many things.
But one thing is for sure,
You will always be loved.
For a fathers work may be from sun up till sundown,
but a mothers work is never down.
And all that I have, am, and hope to be, I owe to you,
So this is for all the times I forgot to say THANK YOU!!

- Alison Thompson

:-)

Tatay's Birthday!

Yesterday was my husbands birthday since super simple lang na tao ang asawa ko ayaw nya ng maraming handa so I decided na mag take home nalang kami.

I bought Red Ribbon Palabok Platter, I'm not really a fan of Palabok pero ang asawa ko super kaya buti nalang super dali lang bumili sa Red Ribbon and masarap din pala sya kasi kahit mga kids kumain.

And then I bought cake by Cara Mia

 It was chocolate cake I forgot lang yung Flavor, masarap din sya my daughter can't help dipping her finger.












That's her guarding the cake ayaw mag pa kuha sa iba...
We also had Bon Chon chicken.
Tatay said it was a special day daw and super happy sya, and simple lang talaga ng happiness ng asawa ko noh?

I feel so lucky everyday not because I get everything I want but because I got to have a partner like him, someone na hindi ka iiwan no matter what and always tried his best to make you happy and make your child feel secure.

 Each man is unique every woman is fragile we just have to know how to handle them and be happy in every way...

:-)

Goodbye to the pain of life...

Hi everyone! I know super tagal kong nawala at marami din akong kwento na gusto i-share sa inyo one of these is about my cousin's struggles with Cancer...

November 2013 my cousin Janssen was brought to a nearby hospital due to excessive cough, he wasn't able to sleep properly or even work properly anymore. After a series of test his doctors advised him to transfer to the Heart Center of the Philippines and there he was diagnosed of stage IV Lung Cancer. It was indeed the hardest part of our life, lahat kami sa family tried everything to help him out financially and emotionally. Nung namatay ang lola namin little things change and  nag ka roon ng gap ng communications sa aming lahat, we only get to see each other sa fb and even talk, but when we all found out about his stage para kaming tinawag lahat ng Lola namin, we become united and much closer.

December 2013 we had a reunion, everyone from different parts of the country and overseas gathered to spent christmas with him. One thing I regretted was not spending our birthday together like we used to. He was born December 10 and I was born December 11, separate years nga lang pero since the day na tumira ako with our Lola she always made it sure na mag celebrate kami together kahit simple pansit and puto lang masaya na kami.

January 2014 He was doing Ok, he started to gain weight kahit papano.
Since it was already a stage IV Lung Cancer his family decided not to undergo any chemotherapy and just went to alternative medicine with Dr. Rey Viloria. Dr. Viloria has given him 3 months to know if the treatments are working for him. We all continue to hope for a miracle, each one of us prayed and prayed, we all tried to show him our love, support and understanding but God really has a plan for him a plan that only him knows.

February 2014 he complain of excessive chest pain, they brought him again to the hospital but this time they went to Lung Center of Philippines, another operation was made and this time things become worst.
February 27, 2014 the doctors told his wife and family that they can only help him live through a tube inserted in his mouth, my cousin is the type of guy who hates to see people suffer because of him so he decided not to have any procedure anymore. February 28,2014 we received a text message from his wife telling us that anytime within the day pwede na syang mawala. After receiving the text and continue posting thru fb I decided to file a halfday leave and went straight to Lung Center, God was so good for giving me the time to say my goodbye to him, hold his hand and the chance to tell him that we love him as a brother.

It was a pain seeing him gone but it was better than seeing him suffer everyday, we may feel the pain of loosing him but we know he is in a better place now. He died leaving us a beautiful memory, a beautiful child and a loving wife.

best app I've ever had...

Just before I go to sleep I just wanna share to everyone the apps that made my life easy hehe...

Having a hard time downloading your favorite music for your android try this:

MUSIC MANIAC-Mp3 Downloader

It's so easy to use, as in I super love this app, now I can get to play music and get music easily it's a must try for music lovers. 

Want to make learning fun with your kiddos in your ipad  try this:

LITTLE READER- this app helps me teach my daughter to recognize different parts of our body specially the Head and also she was able to know action words and how to do it.

HUSH BABY- this apps makes my baby smile and sing and complete a puzzle

BEST KID SONGS-STORIES (PINK FONGS)-this app can make my daughter sing, dance and laugh so nice for a little bonding...

Ola! good morning everyone! hope you all have a good and safe day ahead...

got meet my pillow now...

:-)

Happiness

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From now on I will choose whatever makes me happy and live life the best way I can......

Never mind the bitterness of others and just love everything that's coming, enjoy every minute of the day and be great full....

Just remember how Tatay and I used to have the simplest life, when we still don't have to think of other matters but the two of us, I guess this is what we should do again to live SIMPLE and just be with each other no matter what....

Love

A week of thoughts....

Hi there everyone! it's already Sunday and I still couldn't sleep things are running in my mind and I just wanna share some of them to you, this might help me put to sleep.

Before ko share sa lahat yung thoughts ko share ko muna what happen earlier today...

Since Tatay has no work today we all woke up late as in 10 am, I know we shouldn't practice that but I just let my hubby sleep that long because he was working for 12 hours straight nung friday and It was his time to make bawi all the pagod, well for me and aina naman since I woke up in the middle of the night twice (1. to prepare milk 2. to calm her down because of her nightmare) we made our bawi narin hehe. By 1pm I asked Tatay if we could go the market so we can by some meat for my project dinner and also some fruits for him and aina.

For dinner I was  able to make Pork Hamonado kaso hindi sya kasing sarap ng luto ng Sister-in-law ko pero ok lang kasi nasarapan naman ang asawa ko and pati yata in-laws ko nagustuhan.

The whole day I tried to be a good housewife and a mother kasi on Monday back to reality na ulit ako, back to work and back to stress and I don't even know what lies ahead of me pag pasok ko although I have a very reasonable reason but then I don't know what to expect or baka hindi ako magising in the morning because my body get use na sa 8am wake up ko when I was on leave, but I'll make sure to put all the alarm I need to get up early.

Sa totoo lang last week wasn't just my healing days for sore eyes but also it was my thinking days and stress free days, parang I can live and stay at home nalang for good and be with aina, it was also like I don't get to miss my job at all. Kahit naman super stress ako sa workplace namin I still love my job because it's not really the job that's give me stress it's the people kaya medyo napapa isip din ako why is it that it became so easy for me not to miss everything at all, parang ok lang to leave everything behind as long as I can take care of my family and I can be with my daughter as she grow up everyday, siguro ganito na talaga pag mommy ka priorities and choices are too small or little like you only have to choose between a family or career and one mistake will ruin everything you have and when you tried to balance things you should still know what to give up in the end.

 2013 indeed is the learning years for me and my husband, sa dami naming nagawa na mali at sa daming decisions that we tried to stand up for we both know na may natutunan kami and we both promise our selves to apply everything this 2014.